A lot of guys are like that honey it's the technique for most of us we've gotten so used to how to do it to ourselves that nobody else can we do it the same if that makes sense we can show you to your blue in the face but it's just not the same grip it's not the same rhythm it's not the same it's just not the same so it's were programmed now from years of doing it to ourselves you know what we like and unfortunately other peoples hands are techniques often don't feel the same or don't stay consistent and that's a large part way a lot of guys can't be jerked to compketion by somebody else , Fact 78% of men can't get off with the opposite hand they usually use lol. So don't feel bad it's not on you honey at all maybe you should try licking his testes will you do it you may just give him the edge she needs to pop cheers